I have 3 solos 2 with No hos and one stock.
Yup, Bro's before Ho's dude!
The stick is a clean bird only flown twice.
Good that she's had all her shots and regular checkups, don't want to catch nothing nasty from some Ho!
I decided to install Solex since the other 2 were on Solex.
Solex is an app used to control your drone, you install it on your phone, it does not get installed on your drone. It's an app, an interface, nothing more. I'm guessing what you actually mean is "Open Solo"?
Started going through the update 15 minutes later the controller still wouldn't restart. I finally re started aftef30 minutes and it went to the screen where it sayspreflight update.
If you had installed "Open Solo" correctly, it wouldn't be asking for a preflight update. Sounds like it may have been in the process of installing, the screen shut off (as it should) during the update and the controller was restarted without completing the install. This in turn fired up the original restore image and you're back to stock solo software. You'll need to do the stock update again in order to be able to reinstall "Open Solo"
I tried factory reset on both the copter and controller and get Nothing!
"Nothing" would indicate no power, no reaction from either the drone or the controller, it would indicate that they are now useless bricks. I don't think this is the case. If you want help, you need to describe exactly what happens when you go to reset the copter and controller. Pay attention to the flashing lights on the drone as well as the where the "pair" port is.
Am I screwed?
Only if have an actual "Ho" present. Otherwise you're just in some mild difficulty.
3 green lights on the solo controller won't connect.
Well, they are lights... lights tend to shine, not connect. What we need to do is get a better description of the issue, what steps you've taken, hey, Video and Photo's always help too! It's hard to give good advice though when terms, terminology, and steps are not fully described.
HELP!
We'll do our best, just hang in there lad and we'll try to get your bird fixed.