Here is the link for the heat sink: ICK BGA 40 X 40 X 10 FISCHER ELEKTRONIK, Heat Sink, Square, PCB, For Ball Grid Arrays, BGA, 13.8 °C/W, 10 mm, 40 mm, 40 mm | Farnell element14
Yes, I am using M3 threaded rods with nylon standoffs, and dome nuts at the ends.