Problem Solved. So I connect my phone to the Solo WiFi. Then launch the Solo app on my phone. The main screen of the app shows "settings", "flight school", "support"...and "Fly Solo". All those buttons worked fine except the "Fly Solo" button...for some reason, it simply would not launch to the screen with the different fly modes and allow a left swipe to bring up the map...no clue why it wouldn't work. So stopped trying to use the "Fly Solo" from the app, and just used the app to adjust settings, etc.
Well, after re-booting my phone, the "Fly Solo" button started working...which is the critical piece of this puzzle. It turns out that if the app/phone is connected to the Solo WiFi, you must activate the "Fly Solo" function in order for Solo to respond to the RTH function. A newbie mistake I know, but I am trying to learn how to fly with as few "tools" as possible , and then add in features/functions as I get better. I haven't even used any of the flight modes yet, but I'm getting close to trying them! Anyway, thanks to all for the help and I'm sure I'll be back soon with more questions and/or issues.